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How does the verb cajole differ from other similar words?

Some common synonyms of cajole are blandish, coax, soft-soap, and wheedle. While all these words mean "to influence or persuade by pleasing words or actions," cajole suggests the deliberate use of flattery to persuade in the face of reluctance or reasonable objections.

cajoled him into cheating on the final exam

When might blandish be a better fit than cajole?

Although the words blandish and cajole have much in common, blandish implies a more open desire to win a person over by effusive praise and affectionate actions.

legislators blandished with promises of support

When is it sensible to use coax instead of cajole?

While the synonyms coax and cajole are close in meaning, coax implies gentle and persistent words or actions employed to produce a desired effect.

coaxed the cat out of the tree

In what contexts can soft-soap take the place of cajole?

In some situations, the words soft-soap and cajole are roughly equivalent. However, soft-soap refers to using smooth and somewhat insincere talk usually for personal gain.

politicians soft-soaping eligible voters

When is wheedle a more appropriate choice than cajole?

The words wheedle and cajole can be used in similar contexts, but wheedle suggests more strongly than cajole the use of seductive appeal or artful words in persuading.

hucksters wheedling her life's savings out of her

Example Sentences

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Recent Examples of cajole Editors’ Picks The Trump administration has been trying to cajole other countries into reaching quick trade deals with the United States. Ana Swanson, New York Times, 8 May 2025 Saturday’s vote capped off a tumultuous week of revisions and cajoling over Trump’s agenda, a hodge-podge of tax, border, and defense priorities. David Sivak, The Washington Examiner, 29 June 2025 Allies have been corralled, cajoled and pressured to hike their defense expenditure from 2% to 5% of each member nation's gross domestic product by 2035, even as some have struggled to meet the lower target. Holly Ellyatt,steve Sedgwick, CNBC, 25 June 2025 Yet French Foreign Minister Jean-Noël Barrot said during a recent roundtable with journalists and scholars, hosted by the Atlantic Council think tank, that Paris and Washington might still join forces to cajole Moscow into joining a ceasefire summit. Kevin Holden Platt, Forbes.com, 9 June 2025 See All Example Sentences for cajole
Recent Examples of Synonyms for cajole
coax
Verb
  • There was something meditative about the way the water bubbled and burst, coaxing that tough meat to tenderness.
    Cleyvis Natera, Bon Appetit Magazine, 21 July 2025
  • The crowd burst into laughter, but even wizardry couldn't coax it in.
    Devlina Sarkar, MSNBC Newsweek, 18 July 2025

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“Cajole.” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/cajole. Accessed 29 Jul. 2025.

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