: pity for oneself
especially : a self-indulgent dwelling on one's own sorrows or misfortunes
self-pitying adjective
self-pityingly adverb

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The work of avoiding such ignominious history and getting this turned around is Warren Schaeffer’s to do, and the former Yard Goats skipper is not giving despair or self-pity the time of day. Dom Amore, Hartford Courant, 31 May 2025 And Carl realizes that a new case is just the thing to pull Hardy out of his spiral of self-pity. Alan Sepinwall, Rolling Stone, 29 May 2025 Embrace them with curiosity, not self-pity; with adventure, not anxiety. Margie Warrell, Forbes.com, 20 May 2025 And when his self-pity about the injury turns into a weird possessiveness upon the discovery of Dwight’s very real concussion (from a car crash on his way to rescue Michael, mind you), the episode reaches another level. Ben Rosenstock, Time, 6 May 2025 See All Example Sentences for self-pity

Word History

First Known Use

1604, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-pity was in 1604

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“Self-pity.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-pity. Accessed 9 Jun. 2025.

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self-pity

noun
ˈself-ˈpit-ē
: pity for oneself
especially : too much attention to one's misfortunes
self-pitying
-ē-iŋ
adjective

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